Birth Attendant Home Visit

Lucia and the pediatrician, Dr. Luis Flores, just left. Dr. Lopez didn't come because he's still recovering from his back surgery. That worries me a bit, and I'll discuss it more later on in the post.

Let me start with an on-the-record apology to my family. I slept in a bit this morning and during that time I dreamed that the team came over for this meeting but the house was a wreak and I was so upset and embarrassed. The bed wasn't even made. The playroom was a disaster. And Andrew had decided to revamp the living room configuration into something that was hugely aesthetically displeasing. I was mad at my family and mad at myself for letting it happen and the anger carried right into my real morning. Sorry family, for being so grumpy and impatient and curt this morning. I shouldn't have slept in if I was so concerned about getting the house in shape for visitors. I really wanted the house to look orderly and clean for this visit, because these people are doing something out of the ordinary on our behalf and I wanted them to feel very comfortable with their decision to attend our home birth.

Anyway we got the house cleaned up to my satisfaction, the kids went to Xochi's house to play while we had the meeting, and the meeting itself went quite well. We went over the list of supplies and who was responsible for what items. Then we toured the house. I had thought that we would put the tub in the front entrance but we decided to put it in our walk-in closet. Not as weird as it might sound. It's actually a walk-through closet. We walk through it from our bedroom on the way to our bathroom. Which means that I have shower, toilet and bed all nearby, and it's a nice intimate setting. Not the best for photos unfortunately. But I'm confident my highly motivated husband will figure something out. I'm sure it will include hanging some sort of backdrop. I can see it now... it's 3am, I'm in the throes of labour, and Andrew is hammering nails into the cement walls so he can get nice photos. Which of course I'll be glad we have after the fact, but possibly not so much at the time.

The neighbors also might not be so happy with this plan if I give birth in the middle of the night. But I've put up with a party or two so they can put up with some birthing noises (and some hammering) ;)

The pediatrician seemed quite relaxed with the home birth and with my low-intervention preferences. He thought it would be fine to wait on the vitamin K injection and just watch baby for any sign of hemorrhage. When I mentioned oral vitamin K he put it in my court so I am going to follow up on that. The oral application seems like a good compromise to me, plus ensuring that I have lots of vitamin K rich food in my diet.

About the OB. He had his surgery 2.5 weeks ago. I spoke to him a week later and he was feeling great and said that his recovery was ahead of schedule. He expected to be back in action two weeks after his surgery. So I was surprised to hear that he couldn't be here today. I think he may have overdone it or something in the last few days. Yikes. Of course I wish him a full and speedy recovery for his own sake. And also of course I'm a little concerned about what this might mean for my birth, especially if Wee3 decides to come a little earlier than we expect.

But there's not much I can (/will) do to influence Wee3's birth day and there's nothing I can do to influence Dr. Lopez's recovery. All I can do is continue to pray that God blesses this birth. I think we do have a backup OB, but I don't really like that element of the unknown. That said, Andrew expressed again that he is more than willing to protect our birth plans if things start to go off track without good medical reason.

On Tuesday Lucia will pop by with the hose from the tub so we can make sure that it fits my plumbing. The following Tuesday we will pick up the tub and stash it here in the house.

Before Lucia left I had her check baby's position again. It was the same as last time... at first she thought that baby was breech. Then she really dug in low and felt fairly sure that she had identified a head. I believe it that Baby's head is really low because I am feeling it in my ligaments, muscles and nerves. I sometimes get shooting pains down my thighs and I have to be a little careful how I move and turn otherwise I get very sore in my groin area.

Wee3, we trust you and our Lord to choose the perfect birth date. We will do our best to provide you with a gentle, peaceful, safe entry to this world, and we trust that God is in control even if the circumstances aren't exactly as we planned. We love you so much and we can't wait to meet you!